Boyfriend lasts too long in bed!?

So I'm not really complaining, because the and connection we have has been amazing since the first time for both of us. He is certainly not a minute man, and although that's great, sometimes I get sore after 40 minutes to an hour!!! Is there anything I can do beforehand that might make him quicker? He seems to like having control and really likes to pleasure me. Which is great but I want to reciprocate likewise. I don't think I have the energy AFTER to do much, and sometimes I don't have ALL night!! I have to sleep and go to work the next morning!